Strip Club Etiquette in New York City

Spearmint Rhino Explains the Rules

How do you have a great time at a strip club?

At Spearmint Rhino New York City, the answer is pretty simple.

You know what you’re here for. You respect the talented adult performers and hard-working staff making it happen for you. And you learn about strip club etiquette before you arrive!

That’s why you’re here — read on to ensure your night at our adult club is exactly what you’re looking for.

Spearmint Rhino Dress Code

Let’s start with the dress code. You don’t need to arrive in a tuxedo! But we expect our guests to dress smartly when they’re visiting us.

A nice pair of jeans combined with smart shoes and a good shirt is just fine. Smart pants are even better. If in doubt, dress it up!

A word to the wise. If our door staff won’t admit you or a member of your party because they don’t match the dress code, please don’t argue with them. They know the code and they’re not about to change their minds — arguing could get your whole party excluded.

Age Limit at Strip Clubs in New York City

The age limit at Spearmint Rhino adult clubs is 21+. While some strip clubs have an 18+ age limit for entry, these are mostly BYOB places — you must be able to prove you’re over 21 to enter any club serving alcohol on the premises.

What ID Can You Use at Spearmint Rhino Sex Clubs?

We’d recommend a driver’s license. Easy for you, easy for us. We also accept:

  • Non-driver ID issued by the DMV
  • US military ID
  • US military dependent ID
  • US passport
  • Foreign passport
  • Tribal card

Attempting to get into a Spearmint Rhino club using a fake ID will get you and anyone you’re trying to get in with barred from the club, so we don’t recommend it!

Is There a Cover Charge at New York Adult Clubs?

There is a small cover charge for entry at Spearmint Rhino.

So why do strip clubs charge a fee for entry?

To understand this, you need to remember that a strip club isn’t just a hangout — it’s an experience. Our nude performers put on a fantastic show for our guests all night long. A big part of keeping that show going is tipping at adult clubs.

Whiling away the evening with a few drinks and a low bar tab is fine, but NYC sex clubs aren’t the place for it. We’re here to give you a much more exciting evening, and we expect our guests to get involved!

That means showing some love to our talented adult entertainers in the form of tips. If a guest won’t pay a little for entry, they’re not going to fit our club’s vibe.

How to Pay at a Strip Club

Cash is king at strip clubs. Here’s why.

Cash guarantees a good night…

You’re visiting Spearmint Rhino because you’re looking for an evening surrounded by beautiful, topless women, drinking your favorite drink, and being shown a five-star time.

A ready supply of dollar bills means that this is guaranteed! Credit card, not so much. It’s a lot more hassle and a lot less sexy when you’re trying to book a lap dance and your stripper has to go running for a card machine.

…and means you won’t fall afoul of ATM charges at adult clubs.

ATMs at gentlemen’s clubs carry high surcharges. We highly recommend you withdraw enough cash for the evening before you visit us. That means your entire night will be one smooth, unbroken experience.

Why You Need to Tip Your Stripper

Our adult entertainers will show you an unforgettable evening — but we expect you to uphold your end of the bargain.

Tipping your stripper generously means they have every reason to make your evening special. It also just shows appreciation and good manners!

You can still have an amazing time at an adult club on a modest budget. Our best advice is to spread a few bills around at the start of the evening, and then find a performer you vibe with and show her some love!

This means you’ll be able to afford the lap dance cost from your favorite adult performer and enjoy a fantastic night.

How Much to Bring to a Gentlemen’s Club in New York City?

We recommend you separate your budget for the evening into the following parts:

  • Transport to/from the club plus cover charge
  • Drinks
  • General tipping
  • Private lap dances & personal tips

This means you’ll have plenty of cash to enjoy every aspect of a night at Spearmint Rhino’s!

So how much is a private dance? It depends on the night, but you’ll typically be looking at a $$ price for a lap dance. It may be more expensive if the club is busier.

Lap Dance Etiquette: General Rules, Helpful Advice, and Absolute Don’ts

DO: Tip Well

We’ve said it enough times — generosity is the lifeblood of adult clubs. Besides the initial lap dance cost, you’ll want to save some money for tipping during the performance.

DO: Be Respectful

We’re here to make YOUR evening special. You’ll be treated like a king by our topless girls.

But that isn’t an invitation to insult or degrade our performers. We expect our guests to show respect for our exotic dancers’ time and skills and follow the lap dance rules: this will guarantee you a great night!

DO: Have Fun and Enjoy a Laugh

We want our guests to get involved! Risque talk, filthy jokes, and back-and-forth with our strippers are both expected and encouraged.

Guests with personality make our adult performers’ nights so much more enjoyable — join the party!

DON’T: Touch Your Dancer

As alcohol is served at Spearmint Rhino Clubs, we don’t allow touching. Trying to touch or grope your dancer will earn you a short walk out of the club with a couple of large men in black suits.

ABSOLUTELY DO NOT: Ask for Sexual Favors

The most important rule of lap dance etiquette is that you do not ask your stripper for sex or sexual favors. This will result in your immediate eviction and possibly being barred from the club.

The Secret to a Great Night at a New York Strip Club…

…is in your hands. You’ve just learned the rules, and now you’re ready to visit!

Come down to Spearmint Rhino NYC tonight — every night is a night to remember!